My thing is that I'm asexual, and really couldn't handle being in a relationship at that point. I think he was joking, which I wouldn't mind, but it upsets me to have people refer to my lack of a sexual orientation as a problem, as you can probably tell. :) It makes me feel broken.

If he'd said that he keeps picking the wrong girls, or people who aren't interested, I wouldn't care, but this upsets me, especially when he's the one who seems to have a problem with the married woman.

*tl;dr*